Dear Hearts and Gentle People*
A whole month has passed. My father fell, was hospitalized, had surgery, and is now in rehab. My brother and sisters and I are looking after my mother. (She's started telling me I look like *Bing Crosby, whom I'm actually distantly related to, though she doesn't remember that, so maybe I do look like Bing Crosby.) Tomrrow we're having a family meeting. And one of my dogs has been very sick.
When Dad was delusional from the drugs the first night following surgery, my brother and I sat with him, trying to calm him down. As I drove home at 1:30 in the morning -- my brother settled into a hospital chair for the duration of the night -- it struck me that I had spent more time touching my father in those few hours than I had since I was a baby.
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This is what I did tonight:
When Dad was delusional from the drugs the first night following surgery, my brother and I sat with him, trying to calm him down. As I drove home at 1:30 in the morning -- my brother settled into a hospital chair for the duration of the night -- it struck me that I had spent more time touching my father in those few hours than I had since I was a baby.
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This is what I did tonight:
posted by Billy at 12:12 AM
5 Comments:
I hope everything turns out as well as can be expected...
i'm sorry that life is stressful for you right now. i hope things balance out soon.
A very moving, poetic and insightful post as always. Sending good thoughts to you and your family.
I would hope to have a son like you.
Len
Sorry to hear about your troubles and will wish the best for your Pop...and your pup...and hopefully a little peace for you.
Lovely blog...I've just discovered it.
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